Thursday, November 19, 2015

what has the wedding changed

During the last months, I went through so many new stuff, that I do not even remember them all. It started in Easter when Tom (my boyfriend then) had proposed, so I became a fiancĂ©e and suddenly my marital status was different and there was the time of the wedding preparation, moving and other super complex issues usually totally new to me. Then there was the wedding. Beautiful day full of joy and friends who came to support our decision to become one – or you may say husband and wife. That day truly many things changed, e.g.  my surname, marital status, weight of the gold on my hand and others.

But it has not ended with the wedding. I mean the changes. Next to all official cards and visits to the offices there is always someone, who is coming home and you can share your joy from each other presence. Many people ask me how is it – to be wife. And I have to admit, I have nothing to complain about after the first month. After all it is so neat not to take care just about myself, clean just for myself, cook all those delectable meals just and only for myself and then also get weight from them alone and well the laundry – finally I do not have to wait several weeks to have enough clothes to fill up the washing machine. And Tom’s gratitude and happiness when he sees my work, that is better than anything. Those are beautiful things. And of course it continues, because we have started to lead one live group in our church and to see the unity in our opinions and the way how we can support and complement each other that I am not even able to describe by words.

I am happy how God cares about us and blesses us in everything. And how would not he, well He loves us and knows what our hearts long for and He gladly surprises us by giving much more than we are even able to think of. Let there be always praise to Him for it!